Tuesday, November 15, 2022

A Couple of Thoughts

As a basketball coach, I admit I was more animated than many other coaches. I was a yeller and screamer, and I directed the game from the sidelines. My assistant coaches, Dan, Mark and Tim, were much more calm than I was. Thinking back on my antics on the sideline, I’m embarrassed. And honestly, it was one reason, probably the main reason, I got out of coaching. I didn’t like who I became. It really wasn’t me. I embarrassed myself as much or more than anyone. Successful, sure. At least in terms of record and accomplishments. But successful when measuring how I handled myself and the kids, I was an abject failure.

Yes, I am intense and passionate. In my writing, in love and care and concern for my family and loved ones. I think there are times and places for intensity and passion. Just not all the time, twenty-four-seven.

I watched an interview where Robert De Niro spoke about being calm. I am paraphrasing badly, but he said it never pays to get too excited, because the only place you go from there is disappointment. You can’t go too far up, without at some point dropping down. And he continued by saying, you cannot allow yourself to get too far down, because at some point, you will rise. One cannot happen without the other.

I’ve written before about waves and troughs, and peaks and valleys. We’ve all been there, haven’t we? As many times we have success, we also fail. The trick is to stand up each time, continue on our journey, and as De Niro said, Stay Calm.

The other thought I had is somewhat related to the above. It is about being kind.

Be kind whenever possible, and it is always possible. Always. It doesn’t cost you anything to be kind to someone else.

When you recognize someone in a valley, when someone has fallen down, help by lifting them up. That is kindness. You can go on your way after, but take a moment to lift up. A kind word or gesture. Maybe just to be with someone in silence until they can gather themselves to take a step.

As a principal, I’ve had teachers and staff members and some central office folks who would stop in and say hello, but then ask for permission to just sit and gather themselves. I get it. I’ve been there myself. I’ve sought places to sit quietly, or times to take a quiet walk, or sought people I know I can be with or be around and not be judged for it. 

Be That Person! Be kind! 

There is no cost involved. Kindness doesn’t cost anything. It can only help. Imagine what our world might be if we were kinder to those around us- and kinder to ourselves? We need that. We all need that! Something to think about … 

Live Your Life, and Make A Difference!

To My Readers:

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I received some fantastic news!

Blaze In, Blaze Out received the Best Action Fiction of 2022 Award by Best Thrillers! I can’t possibly express how happy and humbled I am to receive it. This marks the fifth award Blaze In, Blaze Out has won.

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Fan Mail: New Release!

A barrage of threatening letters, a car bomb, and a heart attack rip apart what was once a close-knit family of adopted brothers. Randy and Bobby, along with fellow band member and best friend, Danny, receive fan mail that turns menacing. They ignore it, but to their detriment. The sender turns up the heat. Violence upends their world. It rocks the relationship between the boys and ripples through their family, nearly killing their dad.

As these boys turn on each other, adopted brother Brian flashes back to that event in Arizona where he nearly lost his life saving his brothers. The scars on his face and arms healed, but not his heart.

Would he once again have to put himself in harm’s way to save them? And if faced with that choice, will he?

Blaze In, Blaze Out: Best Action Thriller of 2022 by Best Thrillers! A Literary Titan Gold Book Award Winner! A Readers’ Favorite Award Winner! A Reader’s Ready Recommended Read! A BestThriller’s Editor’s Pick!

Eiselmann and O’Connor thought the conviction of Dmitry Andruko, the head of a Ukrainian crime family, meant the end. It was only the beginning. They forgot that revenge knows no boundaries, vindictiveness knows no restraints, and ruthlessness never worries about collateral damage. Andruko hired contract killers to go after and kill O’Connor and Eiselmann. The killers can be anyone and be anywhere. They can strike at any time. They care nothing of collateral damage. Andruko believes a target is a target, and in the end, the target must die. https://amzn.to/34lNllP

Betrayed: Two Top Shelf Awards: 1st Place Fiction-Mystery; and Runner-Up Fiction-Crime; A PenCraft 1st Place Winner for Thriller-Fiction! A Maxy Award Runner-Up for Mystery/Suspense! A Literary Titan Silver Book Award Winner! A Reader’s Ready Recommended Read Award Winner! A Reader’s Favorite Honorable Mention Award Winner for Fiction-Crime-Mystery!

Betrayed is Now Available in Audio Book, Kindle and Paperback! https://amzn.to/3AfUUpS

A late-night phone call, a missing kid, a murdered family, but no one is talking. A promise is made and kept, but it could mean the death of a fifteen-year-old boy. Greed can be all-consuming, and seeing is not believing. No one can be trusted, and the hunters become the hunted. https://amzn.to/2EKHudx

Spiral Into Darkness: Named a Recommended Read in the Author Shout Reader Awards!
He blends in. He is successful, intelligent, and methodical. So far, he has murdered eight people. There is no discernible pattern. There are no clues. There are no leads. The only thing the FBI and local police have to go on is the method of death: two bullets to the face- gruesome and meant to send a message. But it’s difficult to understand any message coming from a dark and damaged mind. Two adopted boys, struggling in their own world, do not know they are the next targets. Neither does their family. And neither does local law enforcement. https://amzn.to/2RBWvTm

Caught in a Web: A PenCraft Literary Award Winner! Named “One of the Best Thrillers of 2018!” by BestThrillers.com 

Caught in a Web is also available in Audio Book, Kindle and Paperback! http://bit.ly/2WO3kka

They found the bodies of high school and middle school kids dead from an overdose of heroin and fentanyl. A violent gang, MS-13, controls the drug trade along the I-94 and I-43 corridors. They send Ricardo Fuentes to find out who is cutting in on their business, shut it down and teach them a lesson. But he has an ulterior motive: find and kill a fifteen-year-old boy, George Tokay. Detectives Jamie Graff, Pat O’Connor and Paul Eiselmann race to find the source of the drugs, shut down the ring, and find Fuentes before he kills anyone else. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CKF7696  
The Lives Trilogy Prequel, Taking Lives:
FBI Agent Pete Kelliher and his partner search for the clues behind the bodies of six boys left in various and remote parts of the country. Even though they live in separate parts of the country, the lives of Kelliher, 11-year-old Brett McGovern, and 11-year-old George Tokay are separate pieces of a puzzle. The two boys become interwoven with the same thread Kelliher holds in his hand. The three of them are on a collision course and when that happens, their futures grow dark as each search for a way out. 
Book One, Stolen Lives: Editor’s Pick by BestThrillers! Literary Titan Gold Book Award Winner! A Crime Thriller finalist in the 2021 Best Thriller Book Awards!
Two thirteen-year-old boys are abducted off a safe suburban street. Kelliher and his team of FBI agents have 24 hours to find them or they will end up like the other kids they found- dead! They have no leads, no clues, and nothing to go on. To make the investigation that much tougher, Kelliher suspects that one of his team members might be involved. 
Book Two of the Lives Trilogy, Shattered Lives:
The boys are home, but now they have to fit back in with their families and friends. Their parents and the FBI thought the boys were safe. They were until people began dying. Now the hunt is on for six dangerous and desperate men who vow revenge. With no leads and nothing to go on, the FBI can only sit back and wait. A dangerous game that threatens not only the boys, but their families. 
Book Three of the Lives Trilogy, Splintered Lives:
Three dangerous men with nothing to lose offer a handsome reward to anyone willing to kill fourteen-year-old Brett McGovern. He does not know that he, his younger brother, and a friend are targets. More than anyone, these three men vow to kill George, whom they blame for forcing them to run and hide. A fun vacation turns into a nightmare and ends where it started, back on the Navajo Nation Reservation, high on a mesa held sacred by George and his grandfather. Outnumbered and outgunned, George will make the ultimate sacrifice to protect his adoptive father and his adoptive brothers- but can he? Without knowing who these men are? Or where they are? Without knowing whom to trust? Is he prepared for betrayal that leads to his heartbreak and death? 

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