Ever notice when
you go to a pool or beach there are those brave souls who take a running start
and sprint into the water and dive right in?
Then there are those, and I include me in this category, who wade
in. We first walk in getting our feet
wet, then our legs up to our knees, then (heaven forbid!) our waist, then chest
and shoulders and eventually, our head.
We do it slowly, carefully. It
takes time. We get annoyed at those who
splash around us. I mean, can’t they see we’re carefully preparing ourselves
for the great submerge?
Relationships
are often approached the same way. There
are those who dive right in, while there are those who take their time. The reasons, the circumstances, the
situations vary. There isn’t a right or
wrong way to approach relationships. It
comes down to comfort level. I believe
past experiences come into play. Perhaps
there are those who have been ‘burned’ in the past and as a result, are
cautious. There are those who are bold
and no matter the time or place, they enter into relationships easily.
I admire those sprinters
who take the rapid plunge, but no matter how much I might admire them, I tend
to go slowly.
Whether or not
one takes the plunge or moves at the rate of a glacier, I believe depth is the
key. The shallow end isn’t as
interesting. Standing in water up to one’s
knee is okay, but a breeze comes up or the aggressive one near you plunges in
and splashes you. There is more to do in
the deep end of the pool. It is more
satisfying.
The depth of the
relationship is the key. The more one is
willing to share, to experience is the key.
The more one is willing to be receptive, to accept is important. Take a look at those who are meaningful in
your life, those who are so important to you that you long for their voice, a
word or laugh from them, or those who are important just to be near even though
no word is spoken. I’m willing to bet
you have more depth with them than with others.
The relationships you have in the deep end of the pool are the ones that
are most satisfying to you.
No matter if you
wade in or take a running start, getting to the deep end of the pool is the
key. Something to think about . . .
Live Your Life,
and Make A Difference!
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Thank you for your comment. I welcome your thought. Joe