Our dog, Bailey,
eats the way our previous Golden Retriever, Sherlock used to eat: a lot in a little amount of time. Not only does Bailey eat from the bowl, but
she will place her food neatly on the carpet near her bowl and eat it one small
piece at a time. At other times, Bailey
decides to dine out. She’ll take pieces
of food to a different room, appropriately our dining room, and eat it there. Odd and funny and a bit bewildering.
For many years
now, I’ve fallen in love with the Navajo people. I enjoy their rich history. I enjoy the stark beauty of the American
Southwest, specifically the Navajo Indian Reservation in Northeastern Arizona. I even have a few books on their fables and
stories, their lore, their customs, and their traditions. In my favorite room in our house, I have the
walls dappled with Navajo art and artifacts.
The Navajo
people have a saying: “Coyote is always out there waiting, and coyote is always
hungry.”
I don’t know to
whom it is attributed other than that it is a traditional Navajo proverb.
In one of the
books I wrote, one of my characters questions whether or not he is evil. A heady concept and question, despite the
fact that the boy’s age is only fourteen.
Without going into a lot of detail, the question is warranted. The answer comes from George, a Navajo boy
who is also fourteen, and who was raised very traditionally in the Navajo way
of life.
After Brett’s
question, there is a long pause before George speaks. Finally, George said, “My grandfather told me
that in all of us, there are two wolves.
One is good and one is evil. We
make a choice each day to feed one wolf or the other. The one we feed the most determines whether
or not we are good or evil.”
“We make a choice
each day to feed one wolf or the other.
The one we feed the most determines whether or not we are good or evil.”
While the book I
draw this conversation from is a work of fiction, my second book in a trilogy,
I believe the words George speaks are real.
They ring true to me.
I sincerely
believe there are two wolves in each of us.
In Each Of
Us.
Drawing from yet
another story, another allegory, we might call one wolf Cain and the other wolf
Abel.
I also honestly
believe that we make a conscious choice to feed one wolf or feed the other, one
being good, and one being evil. We make
this choice by our words, our actions.
Sometimes we make this choice by our absence of words, by our
inactions. Sometimes, the thoughts we
have make the choice for us.
However we
choose, whatever choice we make, we Feed The Wolf.
We Feed The Wolf
in our day to day interactions with people . . . even with ourselves. We make choices to act or not act. We make choices in the words we say or write,
and in the words we refrain from speaking or writing. We make choices in our reactions to the words
and actions of others.
In any case, we
make a daily . . . sometimes minute by minute . . . choice to Feed One Wolf or
Feed The Other. Which will you decide to
feed? The choice is up to you each and every
time. As Yoda would say, “Choose
wisely!” Something to think about . . .
Live Your Life,
and Make A Difference!