Like many of you, I watched the bowl game last night between Oregon and Indiana. A heck of a game, and to be honest, I vacillated on who I wanted to win. Both are from the Big Ten, with Oregon being a recent addition. Indiana had been at the bottom for so long, but this year, they turned it around and went undefeated. They have an opportunity to win the College Football Championship. From the very bottom to the top of the heap!
But one team had to lose. No ties. One winner and one loser.
As a high school basketball coach, I’ve been there. One team I coached won a state championship- the second smallest school in the state of Wyoming! The year before, we had played for the championship and lost. It happens.
I changed high schools after a two-year stint as a graduate assistant at a university, and I taught and coached at a moderately large school in Wisconsin. Loved it. In my last year, I resigned at the beginning of the season, effective at the end of the season, because I wanted to end with my seniors, a great group of young men. We didn’t go as far as we had wanted, like Oregon, last night. I felt for the coach, and I felt for the team. Been there. Felt it. It hurts.
What impressed me was what head coach Dan Lanning said after the game. I’m going to cut and paste it from an article on MSN.com for you, because I don’t want to misinterpret his words and inject my own. It would be a disservice to him and to you who read my posts. This is what Coach Lanning said: --
The Hardest Part of Being in the Locker Room Right Now:
“Man,
you hurt for those guys because the world is going to judge everybody in that
room based on the result tonight. I’m going to judge those guys on the kind of
fathers they become someday, the kind of husbands they become someday. But in
this moment, you feel like a failure, right, for them, and they’re not. They’re
not failures. These guys won a lot of damn ball games. They’ve had a lot of
success. They’ve changed some people’s lives, but right now, that moment is
going to hurt.”
“And the hard part, you
know, you got guys like Bryce (Boettcher) that they don’t get to be a Duck
anymore. They will be a Duck forever, but he does not get to go wear that
uniform and go play a game for us again. I really wanted that for them, really
wanted them to be able to enjoy that and experience that, and they don’t get
to.”
“And I didn’t do a good enough job of getting them there.
They set the stage where there might be an opportunity down the road where
somebody in this program is able to create something like that again, but he
won’t get to share that. But he will be a part of that if we’re able to
accomplish that moving forward.”
What Quarterback Dante
Moore Can Learn From This Experience:
“I think
every man can learn from adversity. I just told that whole locker room, right,
this is going to be about how you respond in life. This is going to be a life
lesson that a lot of people never get. We just got our butt kicked. Right? That’s
going to happen in life, right, and not just Dante. Every single person in the
locker room, every coach, every person can learn, ‘Hey, how do you respond to
that?’ Some people crawl into a hole, right, don’t face the music.”
“Some people say, ‘Okay,
let’s figure it out. Let me challenge myself so I can be better. Let me be an
example of how you handle moments like this.’ I think there is a way to handle
that. Dante has been exceptional. Bryce, these guys have been exceptional,
stewards of what we wanted to look like all year long. And it’s gone right for
us 13 times. Didn’t go right tonight. And you can’t let that overshadow.”
“Every one of us has unbelievable disappointment. Learn
from it. But there’s a lot of lessons to be learned for everybody in life, and
we’ll learn the hard lessons here. And you know what, most people will never be
in the position where they get to learn that lesson that we get to learn on.
These guys were in that position.”
His (Coach Lanning’s) Opening
Statement:
“First
off, all the credit in the world to Indiana. Said it before that they’re an
unbelievably well-coached team. I think that was really apparent tonight. They
started off hot, and they really didn’t slow down. They were able to run it and
have success. Passing at their defense played outstanding. We were able to
generate a little momentum there at times, but we were so far in the hole that
you really couldn’t create yourself out of that.”
“And the
takeaway is obviously they were able to create some. We didn’t create those.
They won average starting field position throughout the night. Their special
teams were special. You see a really complete team. And I think they obviously
have a great chance to keep it going and have unbelievable success. Credit to
the coach Cignetti and credit to those players. They’ve got great leadership
and a veteran team that really showed up.” --
I think
we can learn a great deal from Coach Lanning’s comments. To say what he said in
the way he said it is the mark of a humble, compassionate, and wise leader.
Those young men who played and will play for him, those coaches who coached
alongside him, will be better human beings from having been associated with
him. Honestly, his comments, his actions, and his demeanor on the sideline make
me want to get to know him. Even more and even at age 72, it makes me want to
grab a helmet and some shoulder pads and play for him. Hell, I’ll even be the
ball or water boy. If I had a son, that’s the man I’d want coaching him,
learning from him. Something to think about …
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